It would be cheaper to fly to Spain, get a hip replacement, live there for two years, get a second hip replacement, and fly home than it would be to get one hip replaced in the United States.
oh my god
I like how she’s saying that you’re trying to “redefine” it when that’s exactly what she’s actually doing.
And actually, when you’re drunk, for either sex, you can NOT give consent BY LAW.
Do you not even see how much you’re invalidating so many people who have experienced this, and actually aren’t okay with it?
If you have to finally say yes to someone because they won’t stop asking (and it does NOT fucking matter if you’re dating them, that DOES NOT make it okay either way. Partners CAN and DO rape.) that is NOT consent, it’s giving in to pressure, because in those situations, even if you said yes (because they wouldn’t fucking drop it) most times the girl/guy STILL doesn’t want to.
Having sex because you’re partner wouldn’t take no for an answer and to get them to stop asking, IS. NOT. CONSENT. It’s giving in.
And giving in =/= consensual sex.
And trying to use the media as a reason to why you’re right is absolutely sickening, because the media is a big reason as to why this happens.
Do you not understand what television and tv shows are? FICTION.
Which means that they are NOT to be used as a basis as to what’s okay or not. Both you, and the shows you watch, are feeding into rape culture.